“You don't need a reason to forgive... If you want to go on with someone, that is what you do. ”

“You are making it harder than it has to be," she says.I say, "And should I forgive him because it would be easier?""You don't nee a reason to forgive," she says. "If you want to go on with someone, that is what you do.”

“... but if I've learned one thing, it's this: forgiveness is crucial. If you can't forgive someone you're mad at, that anger will poison you. You have to learn to let it go"... "people have reasons for doing the things that they do, especially when they care about you. You may not always understand what they are, but if you can try to understand the person then you might see that they really care, despite what happened."pg 100 Meredith to Vlad”

“What do you know about being sad?''I know you don't need a reason.”

“No matter what you are going through, do not think of going from the face of the earth. Someone needs you”

“You don't need to know what you want. You only need to know what you don't want...”