“...the plan will happen in spite of us, not because of us.”
“Things do not happen to us… They happen because of us”
“Life is what happens to us while we are making other plans.”
“It started off as a playful fantasy we talked about. Then the fantasy became a plan, the way fantasies sometimes do, and the plan became a future. It didn't hit us as the climax of anything, just the celebration of something that had already happened to us. I guess we hoped the celebration would help us understand what had happened.”
“Trying to change yourself is as hard as trying to change the universe. Maybe there’s no difference. The fact is, shit happens none of us plan on.”
“Happiness is something that just happens because of the arrangement of circumstances, but joy endures in spite of circumstances.”