“My life has been filled with terrible misfortune; most of which never happened.”
“There were many terrible things in my life and most of them never happened.”
“I've experienced a great deal of pain and suffering in my life ...... most of which has never happened.”
“I have been through some terrible things in my life, some of which actually happened.”
“I've had a lot of worries in my life, most of which never happened.”
“Our worst misfortunes never happen, and most miseries lie in anticipation.”