“If you wish to control others you must first control yourself”
“A man must feel he runs things, but as long as you control yourself, you control him.”
“I have two maxims that I believe, dear girl. One, if you can control yourself, you can control others. Two, if you can control information, you can control others.”
“You must first enable the government to control the governed; and in the next place, oblige it to control itself.”
“You can't gain control of your children by losing control of yourself”
“If you wish to find yourself, you must first admit you are lost.”