“You're fine the way you are. Don't try to change it, try to better it.”
“You're better equipped for this world than I am," she said. "I'm always trying to change the world. You know how to live in it.”
“you are you for a reason don't try to change”
“Don't try to change Doofus, let Doofus change you.”
“Being a good person, or a better person, or whatever it is you're worried about and trying to fix? It shouldn't change who you are. It means you become more like yourself.”
“He knows that there's no better way in the world to aggravate somebody who's trying to make it hard for you than by acting like you're not bothered.”