“You have to bang your head against a bigger and stronger wall to realize that you are not the strongest in the world!!!”
“Clearly the secret of happiness...is a variation on the general principle of banging your head against a wall, and then stopping.”
“You are not a mistake. You are not a problem to be solved. But you won't discover this until you are willing to stop banging your head against the wall of shaming and caging and fearing yourself. (p. 84)”
“It's like banging my head against the wall, except if I were actually banging my head on a wall, I'd be able to make myself stop.”
“If you beat your head against the wall, it is your head that breaks and not the wall.”
“It's starting to sink in," Corny said. "I can almost look at you without wanting to bang my head against the wall.”