“Having children is not something you do if you have time, having children is what God gave you time for.”

“Do not force your children to behave like you, for surely they have been created for a time which is different to your time”

“But feel what happens in the soul when you imagine children saying to their parents, "What you gave me, first of all, wasn't the right thing, and secondly, it wasn't enough. You still owe me." What do children have from their parents when they feel that way? Nothing. And what do the parents have from their children? Also nothing. Such children cannot separate from their parents. Their accusations and demands tie them to their parents so that, although they are bound to their parents, the children have no parents. They then feel empty, needy and weak.This is the second Order of Love, that children take what their parents give in addition to life as it comes.”

“When you take the time to actually listen, with humility, to what people have to say, it's amazing what you can learn. Especially if the people who are doing the talking also happen to be children.”

“Realize that if you have time to whine and complain about something then you have the time to do something about it. ”

“Do you have children? she asked.No.Why?The man answered that one had to have faith in the world to have children.”