“Pain is deep, love is harsh. But eventually it will be tamed and you will be able to let go of what you want to forget.”

“Here you go on this long long dream. Don't even try to wake up. Just let it go on until it is over. You will learn many things. Just relax and observe because there is pain and that's it mostly and you aren't going to be able to escape no matter what. Eventually it will all be over anyway. Good luck.”

“When you forgive, you are letting your anger go but you never forget what happened. When you forget, you push it all away pretending it never happened at the same time the pain and anger is held inside, unforgotten.”

“What was the point of being able to forgive, when deep down, you both had to admit you'd never forget?”

“Don't be afraid to let it go. Releasing hate does not make you forget what you want always to remember. It does not mean reconciliation.”

“And don't worry too much about security. You will eventually have a deep security when you begin to do what you want.”