“We speak not only to tell other people what we think, but to tell ourselves what we think. Speech is a part of thought.”
“I think most of us tell ourselves we don't want what we think we can't have just to make life bearable.”
“How we relate with other people is dependent on how we rate ourselves and what we think about ourselves.”
“A story is based on what people think is important, so when we live a story, we are telling people around us what we think is important.”
“When we place more value on what other people think of us than on what we think of ourselves, it’s a formula for misery.”
“The lies we tell other people are nothing to the lies we tell ourselves.”