“Good people aren't good because they never cause harm to others. They're good because they treat others the best way they know how, with the understanding that they have.”
“Maybe that's all demons ever are. People like us, doing things without even knowing what we're doing.”
“Welcome to the human race. Nobody controls his own life, Ender. The best you can do is choose to fill the roles given you by good people, by people who love you.”
“Human beings are free except when humanity needs them. Maybe humanity needs you. To do something. Maybe humanity needs me—to find out what you're good for. We might both do despicable things, Ender, but if humankind survives, then we were good tools.”
“Oh, Val," said Father. "All you have to do is live your life, and everyone around you will be happier.""No greatness, then.""Val," said Mother, "goodness trumps greatness any day.""Not in the history books," said Valentine."Then the wrong people are writing history, aren't they?" said Father.”
“There's only one thing that will make them stop hating you. And that's being so good at what you do that they can't ignore you.”