“It's not what you are, it's what you don't become that hurts.”
“...it's not what people do, it's what they don't tell you they do. That's what hurts. That's what you think about when the television signs off and you're still bright-eyed and bushy-tailed.”
“You don't want to let go, but don't want to be hurt, either. It's not a great place to be but what can I tell you?”
“It's not what we don't know that hurts. It's what we know that ain't so.”
“You can always tell duty. It's what you don't want to do--it's what you fight against inside you. Duty's when you realize how it'll hurt other people and you choose between that and what would be easiest for you.”
“It's not what people do to you, but what they mean, that hurts.”