“I think people often try to find through sex things that are much easier to find in other ways.”

“I often find that getting head issues out of the way first makes the heart stuff easier to work on later.”

“...You find a way, somehow to get through the most horrible things, things you think would kill you. You find a way and you move through the days, one by one, in shock, in despair, but you move. The days pass, one after the other, and you go along with them - occasionally stunned, and not entirely relieved, to find that you are still alive.”

“They should be. One life doesn't end the others. Even if they are your family, your closed friends or your boyfriend. They find a way to let everything easier. They find a way not to hurt. They find a way to move on with their lives.”

“Man does not necessarily begin with despotism because he is barbarous, but very often finds his way to despotism because he is civilised. He finds it because he is experienced; or, what is often much the same thing, because he is exhausted”

“Progress isn't made by early risers. It's made by lazy men trying to find easier ways to do something.”