“Sometimes we know who we want to be and what we want to do long... long before we know how to get there.”

“We have to know the truth about our past to discover our future.”

“People say it all the time--'follow your heart.' What are we supposed to do--take our heart out and walk around behind it--follow it down the sidewalk to the mall? Your feet will lead you to your heart. Ha! "Maybe it just means you should know your heart, because if you know it, you might do what it says to do. I don't think it means you do whatever you damn well please. I don't think the heart speaks very loudly either--just tosses you hints and whispers.”

“This is the thing we must guard against: that others' expectations, especially our families', do not become our own.”

“Things aren't obvious unless we see them.”

“It is not about how it ends; it is about the journey. The full story. You have to know the full story to care about or know the ending.”

“I hope you never understand what it is to know that all you believed is wrong--sorely wrong.”