“you can’t punish someone for a lack of affection, can you? You can’t force a child to love you just because he’s your child.”
“In a world of complete economic equality, you get and keep the affections you deserve. You can’t buy love with gifts or favors, you can’t hold love by raising an inadequate child, and you can’t be secure in love by serving as a good scrub woman or a good provider.”
“You can’t be another person’s honesty, child, but you can be your own.”
“You can’t force love. You can’t control how someone else feels. You just have to enjoy it while it lasts and hope the ride doesn’t end.”
“You can’t change the road you traveled from a child, but you can certainly take a different road for the journey into your future.”
“You like someone who can’t like you back because unrequited love can be survived in a way that once-requited love cannot.”