“...the heart of a child can take forty-nine blows before it’s damaged for ever and what’s done can never be undone.”

“What is done can never be undone.”

“All I have to say about love can be summed up in nine words: Never wipe your ass before you take a shit.”

“Those who claim that any woman can reprogram her consciousness if only she is sufficiently determined hold a shallow view of the nature of patriarchal oppression. Anything done can be undone, it is implied; nothing has been permanently damaged, nothing irretrievably lost. But this is tragically false. One of the evils of a system of oppression is that it may damage people in ways that cannot always be undone. Patriarchy invades the intimate recesses of personality where it may maim and cripple the spirit forever.”

“What is done cannot be undone, but one can prevent it happening again.”

“Housework, if it is done properly, can cause brain damage.”