“You decide for yourself when it will hurt.”
“...and we do decide for ourselves when it will hurt.”
“And don't kid yourself; when you don't decide, that's a decision.”
“Don't you ever talk about yourself like that to me again. You hurt me when you hurt yourself Spencer. Think about that the next time you go to say something so stupid.”
“When you spring to an idea, and decide it is truth, without evidence, you blind yourself to other possibilities.”
“The fourth gift is Compassion. May you be gentle with yourself and others. May you forgive those who hurt you and yourself when you make mistakes.”