“This is what you know about someone you have to hate: he charges you with his crime and castigates himself in you.”
“If you didn't have someone to hate, you wouldn't know what to do with yourself, would you?”
“You hate someone whom you really wish to love, but whom you cannot love. Perhaps he himself prevents you. That is a disguised form of love.”
“Someone likes you based not on how he feels about you but on how you make him feel about himself.”
“You can't hate someone until you know what it might be like to love them.”
“You show me what someone listens to, I’ll tell you everything you want to know about his soul. (For instance, a bunch of Nickelback albums would have indicated he never had a soul in the first place.)”