“Normal" isn't an adjective you wish to hear after putting that much effort into making sure it was spectacular.”

“I'm thinking there isn't much normally in your normally.”

“(In reference to swingers) In the meantime, if you wish to declare yourself polyamorous, get used to the fact that the confusion is gong to remain as a pejorative. Sure, clear up the misunderstanding as much as you can, but don't put too much effort into setting yourself up as a "good", responsible, community-oriented polyamorist by contrasting yourself to the "bad" swingers - they may not be your siblings, but they're definitely your cousins.”

“We must put effort and energy into anything we wish to change.”

“When you put so much effort to forget someone, the effort itself becomes a memory. Then you have to forget the forgetting, and that too is memorable.”

“If you wish for something, make sure you are ready for it.”