“Shouldn't an important part of discovering yourself be discovering what you family was like? Whichever side you favor in the nature versus nurture argument, who your parents are certainly helped shape who you are.”
“Your past doesn't have to dictate who you are, but it can help you discover who you're meant to be.”
“nature or nurture' said the professor. 'Whichever way the parents are to blame”
“Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.”
“The world, we'd discovered, doesn't love you like your family loves you.”
“When you are older you will meet a man who will love you for yourself. A good-natured, charming respectable man who is liked by you family.”