“The formula I've figured out: Stop being so damn picky and let go of the mental image of an ideal; talk to more strangers, because it builds confidence and helps you feel more connected; be open to every opportunity, and when you do meet someone you like, keep dating around. And there's the mother of all lessons-the one I'm still working on: follow your instincts and even if you're wrong about him (or her), you'll know better for the next time.”

“It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it's so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn't coma back. You're left so alone that you can't explain. Damn, there's nothing like that, is there? I've been there and you have too. You're nodding your head.”

“Next time you're about to rule out some guy because he's not your ideal, try to focus on the good things about him, because some guy is going to have to focus on the good things about you, even though he may have wanted someone more easygoing or taller. Every time you start to dissect some guy, note that he's willfully ignoring all of this in order to go out with you.”

“Then come to realize that you're making mountains out of molehills. Realize how petty you've become. Sure, it may feel like you can't get a grip on this town. It may seem that every time someone offers you a hand up, they just let go and you slip further down. But you must stop being so pessimistic, Hannah, and learn to trust those around you. So I do. One more time.”

“Every time you connect, a little bit more clarity stays around the love, a little bit more space opens up around it. your mind becomes clearer. you experience expanded possibilities. You become a little more confident, a little more willing to connect with others, a little more willing to open up to other people, whether that means talking about your own stuff or listen to theirs. And as that happens a little miracle occurs: You're giving, without expectation in return. Your very being becomes, consciously or not, an inspiration to others”

“1) I love you not for whom you are,but who i am when i'm by your side.2) No person deserves your tears,and who deserves them won't make you cry.3) Just because someone doesn't love you as you wish,it doesn't mean you're not loved with all his/her being.4) A true friend is the one,who hold your hand and touches your heart.5) The worst way to miss someone is,to be seated by him/her and know you'll never have him/her.6) Never stop smiling not even when you're sad,someone might fall in love with your smile.7) You may only be a person in this world,but for someone you're the world.8) Don't spend time with someone,who doesn't care spending it with you.9) Maybe God wants you to meet many wrong people,before you meet the right one,so when it happens you'll be thankful.10) Dont cry because it came to an end,smile because it happened.11) There will always be people who'll hurt you,so you need to continue trusting, just be careful.12) Become a better person and be sure to know who you are,before meeting someone new and hoping that person knows who you are.13) Don't struggle so much,best things happen when not expected.”