“Others will notice you, Joclyn. But, you can't let it change who you are deep inside. Have fun for you, not the people around you.”

“You can't just change who you are on the outside and expect it to change who you are on the inside.”

“You can't change other people. You can only change yourself. Everyone's got problems. You learn from them, you live with them, you move on. It's choice you make if you want to have a happy life. Nobody's perfect. People are different and that's what makes them so interesting. You only get one father. The quicker you accept him for who he is, the better your life will be. Your father is who he is. Nobody can change that. Find your self esteem from the inside.”

“Maybe home isn't a place. Maybe it's a feeling you have inside of you, being around the people who matter to you”

“You can't change who you are, can you? That would require changing the people who made you along the way. That would mean discrediting everything they ever gave you.”

“Perhaps somewhere, someplace deep inside your being, you have undergone important changes while you were sad.”