“We all try. And try as we might to control things, sometimes bad things get in and it's not our fault.”

“If you try and lose then it isn't your fault. But if you don't try and we lose, then it's all your fault.”

“This is the thing about life I've never really understood until now: we try so hard to control it, but bad things happen anyway. The only real control is an anti-control, a letting go.”

“that there are many things that we cant understand. the past. the bad things that happened... and we become afraid. of what might happen in the future. its okay to be afraid. but we have to keep hoping and believeing... to keep hoping and trying our best to be good and do good. even when we're afraid”

“Trying to justify a world we don't hold all the answers to is what bedevils the best of us. Sometimes it's better just to accept that things are as we see them.”

“We all fall sometime but it's those that get back up and try again that make the difference.”