“I suggest that you not ignore many possible candidates who are still developing these attributes, seeking the one who is perfected in them. You will likely not find that perfect person, and if you did, there would certainly be no interest in you. These attributes are best polished together as husband and wife.”
“Not seeing people permits one to attribute to them all possible perfections.”
“A perfect wife is one who doesn't expect a perfect husband.”
“Perfect happiness is an attribute of angels; and those who have it, appear angelic”
“Those who possessed in highest degree the attributes (of the Tao) did not (seek) to show them, and therefore they possessed them (in fullest measure).”
“People keep looking for the perfect one, but perfection is an attribute of God alone.”