“Don't get starry-eyed about somebody you can't have, especially if it blinds you to somebody who's really important.”
“You want her to like you. But when you rescue somebody…it complicates things. Don’t get starry-eyed about somebody you can’t have, especially if it blinds you to somebody who’s really important. Don’t…don’t make my mistakes.”
“don't trust somebody who can't trust you”
“You can't think on purpose about somebody or something. Either you think about them naturally or you don't think at all.”
“It's quite an undertaking to start loving somebody. You have to have energy, generosity, blindness. There is even a moment right at the start where you have to jump across an abyss: if you think about it you don't do it.”
“You are responsible for your life. You can't keep blaming somebody else for your dysfunction. Life is really about moving on.”