“That's where your definition of attachment comes in. I'm in a monogamous relationship with two people.”

“in all relationships there are always aching holes and that's where the impossible wishes come into it...”

“But certainly not everyday you can find someone who wants to have a monogamous relationship”

“What is home? My favorite definition is "a safe place," a place where one is free from attack, a place where one experiences secure relationships and affirmation. It's a place where people share and understand each other. Its relationships are nurturing. The people in it do not need to be perfect; instead, they need to be honest, loving, supportive, recognizing a common humanity that makes all of us vulnerable.”

“The only people that can ruin a relationship or make that relationship work are the two people in it.”

“It makes me cry because it means that fewer and fewer people are believing it's cool to want what I want, which is to be married and have kids and love each other in a monogamous, long-lasting relationship.”