“The fight isn't over until you win it, Fitz. That's all you have to remember. No matter what the other man says.”

“The fight isn't over until you win.”

“There will come a time in your life when you lose something that matters to you. You'll fight for it and you won't win. But what really matters isn't the war you're waging, it's that you don't lose the person you are in the midst of the battle.”

“That's the point, isn't it? We have to live on, no matter how hard it gets. We'll win in the end.”

“Then he remembered Ralph's words--"no point in fighting your war over and over until you get it right.”

“That's the big picture, your happiness. And health. You should never care what a man thinks of you -- until he demonstrates to you that he cares about making you happy. If he isn't trying to make you happy, then send him back from "whence" he came because winning him over will have no benefit. At the end of the day, happines, joy...and yes...your emotional stability...those comprise the only measuring stick you really need to have.”