“Englishmen are not usually softened by appeals to the memory of their mothers.”
“Memories do not always soften with time; some grow edges like knives.”
“Those who, in debate, appeal to their qualifications, argue from memory, not from understanding.”
“Simply touching a difficult memory with some slight willingness to heal begins to soften the holding and tension around it. (74)”
“My mother... she is beautiful, softened at the edges and tempered with a spine of steel. I want to grow old and be like her.”
“Appealing workplaces are to be avoided. One wants a room with no view, so imagination can meet memory in the dark.”