“The fault is in the one who blames. Spirit sees nothing to criticize.”
“What you're blaming yourself for is being who you are. And that's no one's fault and nothing you can change.”
“the skilful speaker says nothing that can be found fault with or blamed;”
“We are taught you must blame your father, your sisters, your brothers, the school, the teachers - but never blame yourself. It's never your fault. But it's always your fault, because if you wanted to change you're the one who has got to change.”
“You can blame your mother, and she can blame hers. Leastways sooner or later it's the fault of somebody who's dead.”
“Love should not make us blind to faults, nor familiarity make us too ready to blame the shortcomings we see.”