“If you want to be a reference librarian, you must learn to overcome not only your shyness but also the shyness of others!”

“Believe in your flyness...conquer your shyness”

“true humility is when you can surprise yourself more than others; the rest is either shyness or good marketing”

“Shyness is the fear of social disapproval or humiliation, while introversion is a preference for environments that are not overstimulating. Shyness is inherently painful; introversion is not.”

“I felt suddenly shy. I was not used to shy. I was used to shame. Shyness is when you turn your head away from something you want. Shame is when you turn your head away from something you do not want.”

“Real fearlessness is the product of tenderness. It comes from letting the world tickle your heart, your raw and beautiful heart. You are willing to open up, without resistance or shyness, and face the world. You are willing to share your heart with others.”