“What I can give is not necessary what you will get but along our disagreements we will find some alternate ways.”

“Live the way you want to live but try to listen what others have to say too. You can always disagree but try to find what is the alternative of disagreement. ”

“Our survival depends on not just what we can get in life but also what we can give”

“Our purpose (in relationship) is to get what we want but God's purpose is to give us what we really need. We think things are going well only if we are getting along with others. But God says that it is also when we are not getting along with others that he is accomplishing his purpose.God has designed our relationship to function as both a diagnosis and a cure.”

“There are some things we might not know, but that doesn't mean we should give up. We can find out what we need to know. We can find out everything”

“But what Mom never told me is that along the way, you find sisters, and they find you. Girls are cool that way.”