“You are who you are, whether you like it or not, so why not like it?”

“In Chicago, Illinois, you / are really at home / whether you like it or not, baby, / &, whether you like it / or not / You Are My Friend / so don't pees me off!”

“When there are boys you have to worry about how you look, and whether they like you, and why they like another girl better, and whether they're going to ask you to something or other. It's a strain.”

“Maybe that's why people don't like you. You make it obvious you don't care whether people like you or not. That makses some people angry.”

“Why should you particularly like a man who resembles you? There is nothing in you to like; you know that.”

“What Jeremy likes about showers is the way you can stand there, surrounded by water and yet in absolutely no danger of drowning, and not think about things like whether you fucked up on the Spanish assignment, or why your mother is looking so worried.”