“It is not what happens to you that matters; it is how you feel about it that does.”
“What's happening is merely what's happening. How you feel about it is another matter.”
“It's not what happens to you in life that matters; what matters is how you deal with it!”
“How people treat you does not matter, what matters is how you care for others.”
“It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.”
“What matters in life is not what happens to you but what you remember and how you remember it.”