“People don’t change their behavior unless it makes a difference for them to do so.”

“Always carry a book on a date so that when you get bored you can slip into the Ladies for a read.”

“Women can fake an orgasm, but men can fake an entire relationship.”

“I might be manipulating you to create risk for myself.”

“Women might be able to fake orgasms. But men can fake whole relationships.”

“We come back to the same people to learn something about how we have changed. We want to be assured that we have changed. We so want our pictures to paint differently than they do.”

“Maybe it was the same with people: if you studied them,you'd see new and different things. But would you like what you saw? Did it depend on who was doing the looking?”