“It is your attitude about yourself that a man will adopt.”

“Success in love isn't about looks, it's about attitude.”

“Don't believe what anyone tells you about yourself.”

“Relationship Principle 5Don't believe what anyone tells you about yourself.”

“Whether it’s your taste in clothing, your needs in a relationship, or what you do for a living—don’t let anyone else be at the controls. Define yourself.”

“Relationship Principle 6Men see how you dress, and then make assumptions about your relationship potential.”

“That's the big picture, your happiness. And health. You should never care what a man thinks of you -- until he demonstrates to you that he cares about making you happy. If he isn't trying to make you happy, then send him back from "whence" he came because winning him over will have no benefit. At the end of the day, happines, joy...and yes...your emotional stability...those comprise the only measuring stick you really need to have.”