“Whether it’s your taste in clothing, your needs in a relationship, or what you do for a living—don’t let anyone else be at the controls. Define yourself.”

“Relationship Principle 5Don't believe what anyone tells you about yourself.”

“Live by your own rules Move to your rhythm, instead of dancing to the beat of someone else’s drum Decide how you want to be treated Choose what you will or will not tolerate Leave if you don’t get what you want.”

“Don't believe what anyone tells you about yourself.”

“Relationship Principle 6Men see how you dress, and then make assumptions about your relationship potential.”

“Be an independent thinker at all times, and ignore anyone who attempts to define you in a limiting way.”

“If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted, you'll create a void. Then to replace what you give up, you'll start to expect and need more from your partner.”