“Do not grieve yourself too much for those you hate, nor yet forget them utterly.”

“I think its a sickness to grieve too much for those who never cared a fig for you.”

“I'm stuck struggling in the cold water, and all I can do is grieve, grieve, in the hoar necessitous horror of the morning, bitterly I hate myself, bitterly it's too late yet while I feel better I still feel ephemeral and unreal and unable to straighten my thoughts or even really grieve, in fact I feel too stupid to be really bitter, in short I don't know what I'm doing and I'm being told what to do...”

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.”

“Always remember, others may hate you, but those who hate you don't win unless you hate them, and then you destroy yourself.”

“If you can wait and not be tired of waiting, or being lied about, don't deal in lies. Or being hated, don't give way to hating, and yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise.”