“[...] the responsibility for their wellbeing and for the fundamental meaning they give to their own life must, in adulthood, be theirs. To accept the burden that someone 'can't live without you' is unrealistic. It infantilises that person and overburdens you. p.226”
“Life is between give and take, so if you think that u can't continue to give without taking, this means that u can't continue to take without giving !!!”
“Another person's life is that person's life. You can't take responsibility.”
“Which is why we say I can't live without you meaning your life gives life to me, who am otherwise an empty vessel, nameless.”
“Until you accept responsibility for your life, someone else runs your life.”
“If you never put your life in someone else's hands, then you can't really expect them to put theirs in yours. In the long run, never trusting anyone is a hard way to live.”