“Doing the right things for the right reason in the right way is the key to Quality of Life!”

“Two people can see the same thing, disagree, and yet both be right. It's not logical; it's psychological.”

“Our ultimate freedom is the right and power to decide how anybody or anything outside ourselves will affect us.”

“Is it logical that two people can disagree and that both can be right? It's not logical: it's psychological. And it's very real.”

“If the ladder is not leaning against the right wall, every step we take just gets us to the wrong place faster.”

“My wife and I just don't have the same feelings for each other we used to have. I guess I just don't love her anymore and she doesn't love me. What can i do?""The feeling isn't there anymore?" I asked."That's right," he reaffirmed. "And we have three children we're really concerned about. What do you suggest?""love her," I replied."I told you, the feeling just isn't there anymore.""Love her.""You don't understand. the feeling of love just isn't there.""Then love her. If the feeling isn't there, that's a good reason to love her.""But how do you love when you don't love?" "My friend , love is a verb. Love - the feeling - is a fruit of love, the verb. So love her. Serve her. Sacrifice. Listen to her. Empathize. Appreciate. Affirm her. Are you willing to do that?”

“Inevitably, anytime we are too vulnerable we feel the need to protect ourselves from further wounds. So we resort to sarcasm, cutting humor, criticism -- anything that will keep from exposing the tenderness within. Each partner tends to wait on the initiative of the other for love, only to be disappointed but also confirmed as to the rightness of the accusations made.”