“The only person I know, is the person I want to be”

“When all you want is a person's body and you don't really want their mind, heart or spirit, you have reduced a person to a thing.”

“But until a person can say deeply and honestly, "I am what I am today because of the choices I made yesterday," that person cannot say, "I choose otherwise.”

“what is most personal ,is most general.”

“The ability to subordinate an impulse to a value is the essence of the proactive person.”

“churchgoing is not synonymous with personal spirituality. There are some people who get so busy in church worship and projects that they become insensitive to the pressing human needs that sourround them, contradicting the very precepts they profess to believe deeply.”

“We could spend weeks, months, even years laboring with the personality ethic trying to change our attitudes and behaviors and not even begin to approach the phenomenon of change that occurs spontaneously when we see things differently”