“You can't talk your way out of a problem you behaved your way into!”

“The way we see the problem is the problem.”

“If you organize your family life to spend even ten or fifteen minutes a morning reading something that connects you with these timeless principles, its almost guaranteed that you will make better choices during the day--in the family, on the job, in every dimension of life. Your thoughts will be higher. Your interactions will be more satisfying. You will have a greater perspective. You will increase that space between what happens to you and your response to it. You will be more connected to what really matters most.”

“Inside-Out" means to start first with self; even more fundamentally, to start with the most inside part of self -- with your paradigms, your character, and your motives”

“There's no better way to inform and expand you mind on a regular basis than to get into the habit of reading good literature.”

“Involve people in the problem and work out the solution together.”

“The way we see things is the source of the way we think or the way we act”