“If you want drama, settle for the one who will change your relationship status. If you want love, wait for the one who will change your life.”

“Of your life, you sleep one third, work one third, and worry one third. If you want to change your life, what third would you change?”

“No one is in control of your happiness but you; therefore, you have the power to change anything about yourself or your life that you want to change”

“You can’t save others from themselves because those who make a perpetual muddle of their lives don’t appreciate your interfering with the drama they’ve created. They want your poor-sweet-baby sympathy, but they don’t want to change.”

“Life. It's your birthday present. Open it up and play with it. Act like you like it. (The One who gave it to you is watching, after all. Don't want to hurt his feelings.) And if you don't like your life, CHANGE IT. It is all yours.”

“We are taught you must blame your father, your sisters, your brothers, the school, the teachers - but never blame yourself. It's never your fault. But it's always your fault, because if you wanted to change you're the one who has got to change.”