“We write to taste life twice," Anais Nin wrote, "in the moment and in retrospection.”

“We write to taste life twice, in the moment and in retrospect.”

“I write romance and passion to savour love twice, in the moment and in retrospect.”

“I write about romance and passion to savour love twice, in the moment and in retrospect.”

“We write to heighten our own awareness of life. We write to lure and enchant and console others. We write to serenade our lovers. We write to taste life twice, in the moment and in retrospection. We write, like Proust, to render all of it eternal, and to persuade ourselves that it is eternal. We write to be able to transcend our life, to reach beyond it. We write to teach ourselves to speak with others, to record the journey into the labyrinth. We write to expand our world when we feel strangled, or constricted, or lonely...When I don’t write, I feel my world shrinking. I feel I am in prison. I feel I lose my fire and my color. It should be a necessity, as the sea needs to heave, and I call it breathing.”

“I have no desire to suffer twice, in reality and then in retrospect.”