“The momentary discomfort was nothing at all compared to the realisation that she was finding refuge in my flawed embrace.”

“Those who find no humor in faith are probably those who find the church a refuge for their own black way of looking at life, although I think many of us find the church a refuge for a lot of our personality faults. Those of us, for example, who never learned to dance feel that the church is an ideal place for us if we can find a church that doesn't believe in dancing. Then we can get away with never having learned how to dance. You can carry this in all sorts of directions and see that the church is a refuge for what is really a 'flaw' in your own makeup.”

“I am slowly, painfully discovering that my refuge is not found in my mother, my grandmother, of even the birds of Bear River. My refuge exists in my capacity to love. If I can learn to love death then I can begin to find refuge in change.”

“She is nothing to me, compared with you.”

“I now know all the people worth knowing in America and I find no intellect comparable to my own.”

“The sexual embrace can only be compared with music and with prayer.”