“Think about what he likes and what he's interested in. Something personal is always better than something expensive.”

“What I mean is, lots of time you don't know what interests you most till you start talking about something that doesn't interest you most. I mean you can't help it sometimes. What I think is, you're supposed to leave somebody alone if he's at least being interesting and he's getting all excited about something. I like it when somebody gets excited about something. It's nice.”

“Sometimes, when you crave certain feelings, you'll trick yourself into thinking the other person is something other than what he apears.”

“Justice. To be ever ready to admit that another person is something quite different from what we read when he is there (or when we think about him). Or rather, to read in him that he is certainly something different, perhaps something completely different from what we read in him.Every being cries out silently to be read differently.”

“God is always more interested in why we do something than in what we do. Attitudes count more than achievements.”

“There is never a better measure of what a person is than what he does when he's absolutely free to choose.”