“The fates lead her who will; who won't they drag.”

“Looking for who I am is who I am.”

“A person without her or his own truth ain't a person at all, Ida said. Anybody who tells you different—is a jackass, and no longer deserves to be called human being.”

“Identity is your role in life, the part you play. Individuality is who you are, and who you are is revealed to you if you can get to complete presence.”

“The key to being a warrior is not to be afraid of who you are.”

“All this family shit! Harry said. How can you reinvent your life if the original versions won't leave you alone?”

“The gods know what's important, what's wrong about you. They know everything. If you go out searching for the Holy Grail, they won't let you find it.”