“You can't ever be really free if you admire somebody too much.”
“Friendship is a pretty full-time occupation if you really are friendly with somebody. You can't have too many friends because then you're just not really friends.”
“You can't be by yourself and with somebody, too.”
“Don't get starry-eyed about somebody you can't have, especially if it blinds you to somebody who's really important.”
“You can't be free if the cost of being you is too high.”
“Whatever you want too much you can't have, so when you really want something, try to want it a little less.”