“And unless one can observe the guilt and regret of the mourners, surely there is nothing satisfactory about being dead?”
“Being cared for when one is dead is less satisfactory than being cared for when one is alive.”
“the worst thing about regret is that it makes you duck the chance of new regret, just as you get a glimmer that nothing is worth doing unless it has the potential to fuck up your whole life.”
“I can learn to live with guilt. I don't care about being good.”
“Unless you can change the past, you’re wasting the present on this guilt”
“Nothing exists until or unless it is observed. An artist is making something exist by observing it. And his hope for other people is that they will also make it exist by observing it. I call it 'creative observation.' Creative viewing.”