“There is a way of avoiding which resembles seeking.”
“It was an awkward moment. We were burning down our host's house, a situation which any guest seeks to avoid.”
“...you savor the things we seek to avoid.”
“Neither seek nor avoid, take what comes.”
“Don´t call coward who avoids a fight but to one who seeks”
“THIS which is seeking is THAT which is sought, and THAT which is sought is THIS which is seeking.”