“Red-hot anger takes away a lot of the heartache.”
“He could see Bonzo's anger growing hot. Hot anger was bad. Ender's anger was cold, and he could use it. Bonzo's was hot, and so it used him. ”
“You missed a lot of heartache, sure. But David, you missed a lot of joy.”
“Did you love well what you very soon left? Come home and take me in your arms and take away this stomach ache, headache, heartache.”
“I want you to take a red-hot bath as hot as you can bear it, and just relax your nerves. You can read in the tub if you wish.”
“Talking about your feelings helps you let go of your anger. And it takes a lot of energy to be angry all the time.”