“Define huge.”
“I find it a huge strain to be responsible for my tastes and be known and defined by them.”
“I can't recall consciously deciding to trick time, but that is what has happened. Somehow Martin and I, instead of being leashed for all eternity to what happened sixteen years ago, instead of that being the huge Before and After defining my life, have been set free.”
“Definitions belong to the definers, not the defined.”
“Humans aren't defined by death, and they're not defined by what they lack. They're defined by their connections.”
“Gender preference does not define you. Your spirit defines you.”